Happy Father's Day!

There are so many things I could write about my sweet husband this Father’s Day. I have been truly blessed to have an amazing best friend and partner in parenting. He really is a partner. Part of why we are able to make this time apart work is because Cody has always been a hands-on father. He’s always jumped in and helped with every aspect of the children’s lives. He’s changed diapers, given baths, made meals, and taken kids to the doctor. He’s never considered it “babysitting” to watch his own children. He’s always been invested in their lives.

Two years ago tomorrow I met a baby girl in a clinic in a remote village. I held her in my arms and knew she was to be our daughter. I wondered how Cody would react to the news. I should have known. I emailed him about Mercy and he replied right away and said, “Let’s do it.” No hesitation. He’s always had a heart for adoption. He knew that I was serious when I told him God had directed this.

In this past year I’ve seen him grow closer to all three of his daughters. He’s the master of the ponytail. He’s packed too many lunches to count. He’s taken trips to the park, the movies, and even the nail salon. He’s now bought clothes for every season. He’s sent me numerous care packages looking all over the house and town for just the right things to send me and Mercy. He stays up late every night so he can say “Good morning” to me and Mercy. When he’s visited here he’s done everything possible to give me a break and to bond with Mercy. And I can say that all three of his daughters love him dearly.

One of the first questions I get whenever I tell anyone our story is, “How in the world is your husband doing?” I can say he’s doing well. It’s not easy. I know he gets frustrated and his schedule gets crazy. But he knows there is a purpose in all of this. His love for Mercy has never wavered. His obedience remains steady. His love for the Father shines through him. He’s willing to sacrifice for the love of our children. Few men would be willing to live that life that Cody has the past 10 months. Few children get to have the love and bond with a father like my girls. And I am forever grateful.

Happy Father’s Day my Love.  I can't wait until I can see you with all three of your girls at once!

Oh my!  Father's Day 2010

I love this.